Why My First Year Freelancing Was A Struggle - youramericanmoney
Author: Michelle
Description: There are a lot of ways that you can struggle as a freelancer. You can struggle getting jobs, with confidence, and with budgeting. But, the two issues that I really struggled with was one I didn’t expect: the type of work I wanted to do and who I (really) wanted to work with and help. […]
Date: 2016-02-19T10:00:00+00:00

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# Why My First Year Freelancing Was A Struggle

posted on 19 February, 2016

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There are a lot of ways that you can struggle as a freelancer. You can struggle getting jobs, with confidence, and with budgeting. But, the two issues that I really struggled with was one I didn’t expect: the type of work I wanted to do and who I (really) wanted to work with and help.

It took a year to figure this out and I struggled with verbalizing this struggle.

What in the heck am I talking about? Like most people who work for themselves you start out with a set of skills you would like to leverage financially. Then, you start connecting with businesses to see who will hire you based on those skills.

I remember that first year like it was yesterday. I hung my virtual shingle out there and hustled like a BOSS. I found projects and organizations to work with. I had an awesome $6,000 month in May 2 1/2 months after I returned from my epic trip to Australia. Then, my earnings dwindled, my projects disinterested me and I lost focus.

## #Problems

I was having problems with the actual tasks that I was doing. I actually liked doing those tasks for myself…just not for other people. I also realized that when I worked for organizations I did not enjoy working with:

- Certain Types of Creatives-Basically, anyone doing: massage therapy, journaling, chakras, energy learnings, or meditation retreats. Stop laughing. This happened.

- Business Owners Who Hired Me to Help…but really didn’t want to be helped-I ended up working with great people who just weren’t ready mentally to hire help for the tasks they were struggling with. You know-the client who doesn’t really understand the value of the task or project that you’ve been hired to do.

It’s not surprising that I struggled with what I was doing…I was still figuring out where my focus should be professionally-and didn’t realize it.

## My First Year Freelancing Was a Struggle

But it was also pretty amazing, seriously. I wouldn’t change a thing about it. I learned so much, pushed myself hard, and met amazing people. But, I needed to go through the trial and error period in order to figure out what I was “called” to do and I’m happy to say that I know exactly who I would like to serve and I think that will make all the difference financially.

### Who Are My Clients?

- Wonderful people who are in the transition phase between working for someone else and full-time entrepreneurship

- Businesses that have a product that I understand and can support in whatever role that I’ve been contracted to do for that organization.

- Schools and Corporate Organizations.

- Businesses in the financial space: banks, financial literacy non-profits, fin-tech, credit unions, and other financial organizations.

## What Does This Mean Professionally?

I know that I do not want to be a full-time freelancer and I never did. My ultimate goal was to shift to becoming an entrepreneur but I really didn’t know what I wanted to do so I struggled. Then, I slowly but surely figured it out, here’s my list of what I would like to do.

- Public speaking-I want to inspire, motivate, and encourage people to work towards their dream life. The D.O.N.E. Society is a huge part of that but I also want to share my thoughts with: high school students, college students, and corporate clients.

- Brand Ambassador Collaborations-I would like to work with organizations that will bring value to my clients as they work towards their goals.

- Coaching-I would like to coach people working towards their D.O.N.E. moment and tap into the skills that I developed supervising student assistants and training colleagues.

- Become a Podcasting Bada@@-With the exception of editing I absolutely LOVE podcasting.

What’s the point of all this? Well, there are basically two points that I want to make. The first is when you start working for yourself what you actually end up doing may be different than what you initially started doing in the beginning of your new career.

As you make adjustments and gain more clarity you will be able to focus on business related projects that will make you more money and execute those tasks better because you will be 100% on board and excited about what you’re doing.

Can you tell what tasks I will be eliminating (hopefully) by the end of this year?

## My Mission

Has two main components: educated people about money in underserved communities, motivate and inspire people to create their best lives through digital entrepreneurship.

That’s it. Everything that I’m doing from this point on will be with that mission in mind. I’m enjoying what I’m working on a lot more than before, I’m a lot more energized and focused and I’m excited about my work. This is a huge shift mentally and I’m hoping to see a difference financially.

As a result of this change I’m also enjoying the projects that I don’t totally love a lot more than before because I have a better idea of what the big picture is for my business.

## Did You Struggle Your First Year Freelancing?

## The D.O.N.E. Society

For information on The D.O.N.E. Society click HERE. Request to join the private Facebook group HERE to connect with other digital entrepreneurs who are working on the process of transitioning to full-time entrepreneurship.

## Email Me!

### thedonesociety@gmail.com

I would love to hear from you

I love lifestyle design. I want you to be able to design your life and have a wonderful life.

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1. Michelle says

   19 February, 2016 at 8:06 am

   Freelancers are entrepreneurs but they are contracted to produce and create products and content for their contracted clients. An entrepreneur would be specifically creating content and products that is for their own brand. So, moving forward my goal is to focus on producing content and collaborations that are consistent to my own personal brand.

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2. Jesse says

   20 February, 2016 at 4:46 am

   Yes Michelle. I struggled especially getting my first client. It took me like weeks or a month before someone hired and trusted me. It was hard to compete when I got no portfolio to show and online employment history was just blank.

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   - Michelle says

     20 February, 2016 at 6:44 pm

     It takes awhile to get hired on and then as you work on projects you discover what you don’t like doing. I am very clear on what I don’t like doing and I have created a timeline to phase out of what I don’t enjoy.

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3. Jason @ TheButlerJournal.com says

   21 February, 2016 at 2:00 pm

   I was lucky finding my first client almost immediately after Fincon. I’ve been trying to find a few more during the last couple weeks, but I haven’t been hired yet. I will keep looking though. I also burst out laughing when you listed the 1st type of creatives that you didn’t enjoy working with.

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   - Michelle says

     21 February, 2016 at 5:23 pm

     I landed several great clients after FinCon. I refuse to work with creatives on that list. I had problems with someone in almost of the fields that were on my list. I just have a different work process and we drove each other crazy.

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4. Chonce says

   23 February, 2016 at 8:10 am

   Freelancing can be difficult to break into. I feel like I’m still learning the ropes myself. I think it’s great that you determined which types of clients you’d like to work with and which ones are not worth the headache. We do this at my FT job too. We basically don’t do websites for interior designers or musicians because while the project sounds fun and they are pretty creative and talented, sometimes they can’t narrow down their vision or be helped, lol.

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   - Michelle says

     23 February, 2016 at 3:59 pm

     I love creative people but there are certain professions that I can’t work with. I learned that the hard way LOL! And, YES, it was all about lack of vision and inability to focus and commit. It happened four times which ended up being 3 times too many.

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5. Dear Debt says

   23 February, 2016 at 11:09 am

   Freelancing is tough! My first year was just one nonstop lesson learned! Now onto year two, feeling good 🙂

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   - Michelle says

     23 February, 2016 at 4:01 pm

     Freelancing is not for the faint of heart. Technically I would say that March and April of last year were really when I started to work and get into the grove of things. I’m trying to switch things up this year and am focusing on making a heck of lot more money than last year. I am pretty much ruined for working for other people though so I’m really working hard to make this work.

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6. Broke Millennial says

   23 February, 2016 at 2:18 pm

   The luxury of being able to hand select clients and jobs you want to take is my favorite part about hitting your stride in freelancing. I believe it helps both of you in so many ways when you know the type of work in which you can thrive and the type of folks/companies you don’t want to work with. Granted, I haven’t taken the leap into FT, so this is with the rose-colored glasses of a steady paycheck from my day job.

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   - Michelle says

     23 February, 2016 at 4:04 pm

     I am switching up my process from last year which was a series of lurching steps from one thing to another. I am trying to be A LOT more intentional about who I connect with, how often I pitch, and my base rates. Once those three concepts are focused on and fleshed out the other parts come…relatively easily.

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